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Thank you, she deserves the best. She is a wonderful lady.

You are one of the kindest people I've never met. My Grandmother had MS and was bedridden. Then she developed dementia. My Grandfather took care of her on his own. They had an aid and nurse come on some days, but the burden fell mostly to him. He refused to put her in a home. She died at home about 15 years ago, he's going to be 99 in a couple of months. I had a friend, only 37, who had planned to die at home. It got to be too much for her husband, so they last few days were spent in a hospice They stopped feeding her and giving her IVs, only oral, liquid pain meds they squirt in her mouth. I only saw her once in hospice, the night before she died. As you already know, this is going to be much harder on you than her, but it sounds like you have a strong support system. You are a good man John, it's a honor to know you.