LoneWolf

I'm sorry to hear that. I know how it feels putting time and effort into something like that, and to have it not work out as hoped.

They don't sell my saddle any more, so I'm glad I was able to get one new-in-box from Craigslist as a spare. I think it's sexy.

Three weeks ago, I got to see one of my nieces (normally out-of-country) very unexpectedly. She was in Illinois for a college prep-type program and her laptop started to die. days before her exams. As tech is kind of my job, my sis texted me, and with the supply chain issues still going on, I decided the best thing to do was to get my one-year-old one to her. Drove out there with my tools and migrated all of her data before driving home in the evening. My four nieces all call me by the childhood name she had for me when she couldn't pronounce "Uncle Doug", and I'm happy that that will never change -It was great to see her. GFoLW and I took my parents out last night for their birthdays and 51st anniversary (all fall on the same week) and they got to meet her stepdad too. That was a nice outing.

This is a great forum. So many of y'all were with me through my worst times, and supported me when life was taking unexpected turns. And then y'all were super-mega-happy for me when the sun came out and life took an amazing turn for the better. I'm sad that Cheese is no longer here. I love you all.

I have been to two major league baseball games (different teams, back-to-back days, both wins) and some minor league ones I have been to five concerts (with two more planned for sure, maybe more) I have been to one wedding reception and one graduation open house (for three people, triplets) And I have gotten a new laptop. How are things for all of you?

Congratulations. From six months to your 35 years.

J and I hit our six-month anniversary yesterday. I've never been loved by someone like her before. And I've never had someone so much like me in my life. The happiness and her understanding of me as a person has made me much more happy with myself, and in turn, has done what I thought was impossible: healing me of so much of my past. Bullying, failed relationships, toxic workplaces. Decades of damage, combined with a memory for detail and OCD --I see those on an occasional gray day, which there were so many of, and now are so many less I once asked to be healed -I lacked the faith to believe it could/would ever happen. I was wrong. She's the manifestation of God's grace in my life, and it's clear as day. I don't deserve this --and yet, that's what grace is. Every little new thing just makes it clear and I'm so blessed. We make each other feel twenty-five again (that might be why we went shopping cart racing through the store with her on the front a couple of weeks ago). She was between churches and became happy to be part of mine, where everyone has been welcoming to her and overjoyed for me. And I kind of asked God, some time back, if this ever happened again, to hit me over the head with it so obviously that I couldn't miss it, because I can be kind of a clod. Ton of bricks: delivered. So, I'm in love, and I'm doing pretty freaking amazing. How've you been?

My maternal grandparents are now 97 and 95. 5 years ago, my grandmother's journey with dementia began (slowly). My grandfather was still as sharp as a tack. Several years back, my grandfather fell and hurt his back. His body spent so much energy on the healing process, I think it robbed from Peter to pay Paul. That's when his began. And then I didn't get to see them for a year and a half due to Covid lockdowns. I went last year, and had a great visit with them across town. They didn't remember it three days later. This year I went with my girlfriend so she could meet them. I doubt they remembered her a few hours later, and me, probably not more than half a day. My grandfather kept asking her the same introductory questions. I'm the oldest grandchild; as such, they have the greatest long-term memory of me and the couple others of my generation, but the short-term is gone. I'm glad they're not prone to anger like some have become over this time, or melancholy, or afraid as this change has happened. But I miss who they were. I especially have trouble believing it in my grandfather, who I always saw as an indomitable spirit. I hope someday we'll find a way to not let that spirit be stolen by age.

I met my late wife on Match long ago, so I just kind of went "Well, I don't know women my age range, so...". Most of my friends are younger than I am, some significantly so. I always made sure that anyone I met, the first date we arrived separately and left separately so they would feel safe. If I mentioned a place, it would be one where there were a reasonable amount of people, and could be easygoing. I had a couple that fell through, and several that sort of fell flat on the first date, but I also realized it didn't fall flat because of me (which I'd have thought when I was younger), but because we just didn't click. My first date with GFoLW was reasonable, but not a "sparks flying" kind of date; the kind that makes you go "Let's have a second one and figure out more". The second date...That was an entirely different story. She had omicron all this week --somehow, I didn't get it despite two days of exposure when she was coming down with it (we're both vaxxed and boosted). But she's negative as of today's test, so that's good.h Btw, @bikeman564™ if you're still on the East side of the state and know where I can find some of Arbor Brewing's Liquid Vinyl Anthology? I will totally owe you. It's poetry in a glass (and both of us love it).

At 6'4" and around 260, yeah, not on my concerns list.

Oh, I did that too. I caught a catfish and threw it back because I'm more of a trout kind of guy.

I tried several apps. I'd recommend Facebook Dating (I know, sounds yech because of Facebook, but it's free, and I think 40plus people have good chances there); Hinge and Bumble may also be worth your time. There will probably be a few odd or crazy moments along the way, but patience can be worth it. I met someone on Bumble (note: on Bumble, women must message first, their primary difference from others). She and I are alike in a lot of ways, more than I honestly thought was possible at this point in life, and she understands emotional loss. I've also never had someone in my life who has been as actively "into me" as a person; that's a very new experience, and a very positive one. While there are a number of things to figure out on the logistics side (we both have pets, live about 25 minutes away give or take a couple with jobs in our respective areas), there's a solid foundation that we're building upon. We even had a little mini-vacation Thanksgiving break in Traverse City, exploring some breweries in that area and just enjoying spending some quality time. I wish you the best in this, my friend. Through our experiences, we have experienced loss; but God has shown me that one can discover a life after it. It doesn't diminish what I had; it expands upon it, and has given me wisdom I didn't always have in going forward to be a better "better half".

That would be me guys. Still alive and kicking. Haven't been here much lately. Work has been a bit busy. I also started dating a bit late summer, and after a couple of false starts and such, I started seeing someone in November, which has filled my schedule a lot as well. That's going really well. Still figuring myself out a lot after a lot of changes, and as I get closer to fifty. Still think about y'all all the time.

Maybe the ill-fated (and poorly thought-out) Bricklin SV-1?