A friend asked me to check in on my mom. I call her every week or every other week or when we have time. We both pour a Manhattan and share stories. Someone said they called and she didn't answer so I should check in. I figured they called her her cell and it wasn't on and things were good.
Sure enough, she said she plugged in her cell and noticed a bunch of missed calls. She said people get pissed at her for not having it on all the time. They said what if something happened to me, how would she know? Her reply was, what could I do? He is thousands of miles away, I couldn't do anything. Does it matter if I find out immediately or tomorrow? We agreed this was the best approach. Take care of yourself and if something goes wrong, oh well.
She's 80. Still delivers Meals on Wheels even though she could be receiving them. There are two organizations that provide the service. She thinks one is doing it wrong and she has ideas how to fix it. I happen to agree, but I'll let her deal with fixing it.
I told her I was shopping for a van to live in so I could work remotely, visit her more often, and help deliver meals on wheels. She said I was nuts.
My mom knows how to figure shit out. She's thinking about taking a college course on short stories. I told her to enroll. She'll be late to class, not read the story, and still know more than anyone in the room.