Dirtyhip Posted August 11, 2014 Share #1 Posted August 11, 2014 She complains about me. No matter what I say she takes it as an insult to her riding. Another rider and I were talking about a segment on Strava. I said "It won't matter today." I was speaking about it being just a practice run and figuring out the route. You really have to race segments alone, and not try for anything during a social ride. Chit chat and stop/starts kill a segment time. She seemed to have taken it as ... it won't matter, because we are riding slow because of her. I can't win. No matter what I say, I anger this person. Last time, it was because I wanted to ride alone and segment hunt for an hour before we met to ride together. She asked me to ride, I told her I could meet at X time, because I wanted to segment hunt for a while in the early morning. I would meet her as a finish to my ride that day. Does that make me so terrible? She has said that "I vibe her with my competitiveness" This is not my intention. I think she takes everything I say as a slight to her riding skills. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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