Popular Post Wilbur ★ Posted November 16, 2021 Popular Post Share #1 Posted November 16, 2021 People are always asking when I plan to retire. I don't. Why would I? I have a job that I love doing. It is always changing, often challenging and it involves cutting edge technological advancements. Look at musicians. The Rolling Stones certainly have no financial need to work but they love what they do and are happiest when doing it. In my case, health will determine my length of years as a pilot. So, there will come a time but hopefully not too soon. I am still having too much fun. 6 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post JerrySTL ★ Posted November 16, 2021 Popular Post Share #2 Posted November 16, 2021 I plan on dying some day and would like a few years goofing off first. I earned a steady paycheck for 52 years and have saved enough to retire. Plus I really didn't enjoy the last few years of work. 7 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post MoseySusan Posted November 16, 2021 Popular Post Share #3 Posted November 16, 2021 I would have preferred to keep teaching, but my struggle to remember names and finish sentences was getting in the way of being good at the job. One-to-one, I’m ok. I prefer tutoring to whole-class management. After this sabbatical, I’ll start recording myself reading classic novels and post the recordings on the web. I love reading aloud. 8 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Razors Edge ★ Posted November 16, 2021 Share #4 Posted November 16, 2021 5 minutes ago, Wilbur said: Why not work well past retirement age? Some people work to live, some live to work. Really depends for sure. There are sayings like, "No one ever is on their death bed and wishes they spent more time in the office.", but there is also the "Choose an occupation that you love and you'll never work a day in your life" sort of stuff. I'm 100% in the "if not now, when?" and "you can't take it with you" camp. I find no reason to spend any time earning money I don't need, but obviously, if someone said, "I'll pay you to hike in the Alps for a month", I'd take the $$$. Or even just let them cover expenses 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post sheep_herder ★ Posted November 16, 2021 Popular Post Share #5 Posted November 16, 2021 As I've mentioned before, I retired because, I could feel myself slowing down mentally, and in research, that was not ideal. I was caught up with data analysis and writing, so why not go out on top. I retired at 64. I was also tired of meetings, so nice not having to go to any more in-house meetings. Some people thrive on those damn things. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
donkpow Posted November 16, 2021 Share #6 Posted November 16, 2021 Well, for one thing, I may start losing fingers and other body parts. And then there is the risk to others that depend on me to not fuck things up when I work on their stuff. 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Longjohn ★ Posted November 16, 2021 Popular Post Share #7 Posted November 16, 2021 I operated a forging press 10+ years longer than anyone had previously been able to do. I didn’t want to push my luck. I wanted time for long bike rides and kayak trips. Usually the shoulders gave out on press operators. I think my shoulders were still good when I retired but a few bike crashes is what messed them up. 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Razors Edge ★ Posted November 16, 2021 Share #8 Posted November 16, 2021 9 minutes ago, donkpow said: Well, for one thing, I may start losing fingers and other body parts. And then there is the risk to others that depend on me to not fuck things up when I work on their stuff. Operating the stapler and the three hole punch is a BIG responsibility, Don. You still have a few good years in you! 1 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Parsnip Totin Jack ★ Posted November 16, 2021 Share #9 Posted November 16, 2021 10 minutes ago, Longjohn said: I operated a forging press 10+ years longer than anyone had previously been able to do. I didn’t want to push my luck. I wanted time for long bike rides and kayak trips. Usually the shoulders gave out on press operators. I think my shoulders were still good when I retired but a few bike crashes is what messed them up. Effing deer. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BR46 Posted November 16, 2021 Share #10 Posted November 16, 2021 I started planning for retirement in my early 20s and we stuck with the plan. When I was 40 I had a plan to retire at 57 but stuck around for another year. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post ChrisL Posted November 16, 2021 Popular Post Share #11 Posted November 16, 2021 Being the youngest in my family I’m often asked by my older siblings & in laws if I’m retiring soon. I try to remind them I’m late 50’s, not late 60’s like many of them (the oldest three are in their 70’s) and am not ready to retire. They then go damn that’s right, I’m freaking old… I had one BIL lose his shit at my 50th Bday party. Shit if “Chrissy” is 50 than I’m really old. Yes, yes you are… 2 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
groupw Posted November 16, 2021 Share #12 Posted November 16, 2021 Sometimes you just know when you are done with a job. I had nothing major against the last job. I just want a new location while I still can do what I want to do there. Hence the job change. Even if I enjoy the job, I still hope to retire when Medicare kicks in. I want to be able to hop on my bike or take WoW, our Miata and a camera on a road trip when the mood strikes without working around work schedules. My parents went down to Brazil a few times. The first time was supposed to be a 2 week trip. My brother was to pick them up at O’Hare. Their flight arrived and they were not there. We finally tracked them down and found they had extended their trip for a week. They just forgot to let my brother know. One time they called and said they were going to be gone for a couple weeks. Ok. Where are you going? “South….and West…. Just call Aunt Jan if you need us!” This we prior to cell phones being as ubiquitous as they are now. I look forward to that freedom when we retire. 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Longjohn ★ Posted November 16, 2021 Share #13 Posted November 16, 2021 A cross country bike trip would be cool, I don’t know if my health would allow that now. I wouldn’t do it when Esther was alive because I wouldn’t leave her for that length of time. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
12string Posted November 16, 2021 Share #14 Posted November 16, 2021 I enjoy my job, but it's not something I would do just for fun. And lately the stress level has been quite high. So when it's time to retire. I'll have no problem leaving. Then probably find another job just to keep busy. My wife loves her job, it's more of a vocation, she's not retiring until she has to. Besides, we can't afford to retire just yet. I want to enjoy my retirement, not worry about paying the bills and eating. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jsharr ★ Posted November 16, 2021 Share #15 Posted November 16, 2021 1 hour ago, MoseySusan said: I would have preferred to keep teaching, but my struggle to remember names and finish sentences was getting in the way of being good at the job. One-to-one, I’m ok. I prefer tutoring to whole-class management. After this sabbatical, I’ll start recording myself reading classic novels and post the recordings on the web. I love reading aloud. I am glad you are aware of that out loud part. That was a big surprise to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Wilbur ★ Posted November 16, 2021 Author Popular Post Share #16 Posted November 16, 2021 My current (final employers) have plans for a few round the world trips and being I have done that several times, they want me around. I also want to go spend time in Italy and a few other places again. Now, my wife can ride in the back and boss me around. It will be fun. 2 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BR46 Posted November 16, 2021 Share #17 Posted November 16, 2021 56 minutes ago, ChrisL said: Being the youngest in my family I’m often asked by my older siblings & in laws if I’m retiring soon. I try to remind them I’m late 50’s, not late 60’s like many of them (the oldest three are in their 70’s) and am not ready to retire. They then go damn that’s right, I’m freaking old… I had one BIL lose his shit at my 50th Bday party. Shit if “Chrissy” is 50 than I’m really old. Yes, yes you are… I have a older brother that's 63 and he wasn't happy when I retired. He didn't talk to me for about 6 months. We didn't talk much before but it was even less when I retired. My sister just says since you have so much money that you can retire why don't you give me some. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sheep_herder ★ Posted November 16, 2021 Share #18 Posted November 16, 2021 Nobody said a word to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kirby Posted November 16, 2021 Share #19 Posted November 16, 2021 There is an old saying that people retire when they have enough and they've had enough. If you have a job that you enjoy and that gives you a good work life balance, then I can see wanting to stay on as long as you're still enjoying it. But most jobs don't have a lot of flexibility on hours or the working conditions create stress that eventually takes a toll. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BR46 Posted November 16, 2021 Share #20 Posted November 16, 2021 5 minutes ago, Kirby said: There is an old saying that people retire when they have enough and they've had enough. If you have a job that you enjoy and that gives you a good work life balance, then I can see wanting to stay on as long as you're still enjoying it. But most jobs don't have a lot of flexibility on hours or the working conditions create stress that eventually takes a toll. This ^^^ 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bikeman564™ Posted November 16, 2021 Share #21 Posted November 16, 2021 I don't like work that much 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shootingstar Posted November 16, 2021 Share #22 Posted November 16, 2021 2 hours ago, MoseySusan said: I would have preferred to keep teaching, but my struggle to remember names and finish sentences was getting in the way of being good at the job. One-to-one, I’m ok. I prefer tutoring to whole-class management. After this sabbatical, I’ll start recording myself reading classic novels and post the recordings on the web. I love reading aloud. While a FTE job can keep a brain sharp, there are little things one begins to notice that's super annoying now in oneself. I'd rather be self-aware and know when to step away and allow the next generation of folks to deal with the multiple soccer balls thrown at them simultaneously. Now at some staff meetings, sometimes I'm a bit more cavalier in my comments. I better be careful before I'm classed as the crazy old gal. Really, I don't know why my colleagues are so afraid to give their opinion and offer a solution. They are around my age!! Isn't getting older, on the good side, means less afraid of voicing your opinion? As long as you graciously offer a solution/compliment. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tizeye Posted November 16, 2021 Share #23 Posted November 16, 2021 Work is a dirty four letter word and we don't use that type of language around here. Actually, not "work" but self employed. Always looking for some extra money flow. Passive income. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zealot Posted November 16, 2021 Share #24 Posted November 16, 2021 I feel like my health is what would actually stop me. But I’ve prayed since before I was married to always be able to supply for my family. Whatever that looks like is what will be. Work hasn’t always been a bed of roses. But I have enjoyed learning all the things I have along the way. And I have always enjoyed the interactions and friendships I’ve developed. My desire is that what I do makes a positive difference. Peace 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Further Posted November 16, 2021 Share #25 Posted November 16, 2021 Needing to work and wanting to work are different worlds 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BR46 Posted November 16, 2021 Share #26 Posted November 16, 2021 Working in a office vs. working in a factory or construction is a different story. Sometimes it comes down to what the body can take. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ralphie ★ Posted November 16, 2021 Share #27 Posted November 16, 2021 Lots o' good thoughts here. One factor for me is I don't deal well with change unless it is overwhelmingly positive, and getting my last paycheck ever freaks me out just a tad, no matter how much I have saved because things like this sudden inflation can always pop up. But the other factors are also in play like how long my health holds up, that a desk job with 3 hours of commuting leaves me way short of adequate exercise and free time, yada yada yada. My job is full of new stuff like Wilbur's, but also like Mosey Susan I can feel myself slowing down, and I was never fast to begin with! 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Airehead Posted November 16, 2021 Share #28 Posted November 16, 2021 6 hours ago, MoseySusan said: I would have preferred to keep teaching, but my struggle to remember names and finish sentences was getting in the way of being good at the job. One-to-one, I’m ok. I prefer tutoring to whole-class management. After this sabbatical, I’ll start recording myself reading classic novels and post the recordings on the web. I love reading aloud. LibriVox or Access News could use your reading ability. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post petitepedal ★ Posted November 17, 2021 Popular Post Share #29 Posted November 17, 2021 My former coworker was 79 ..and not keeping up....I am within the age requirements to move in where I work..but I have vowed..70 is the absolute latest I will work..but I am now trying for 68....although 66 & 8 months qualifies me. However...if @Wilbur needs a stewardess....I'm in ....my job has no travel perks 3 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ralphie ★ Posted November 17, 2021 Share #30 Posted November 17, 2021 1 hour ago, petitepedal said: My former coworker was 79 ..and not keeping up....I am within the age requirements to move in where I work..but I have vowed..70 is the absolute latest I will work..but I am now trying for 68....although 66 & 8 months qualifies me. However...if @Wilbur needs a stewardess....I'm in ....my job has no travel perks I am sort of with you on the time frame. 66-68-ish. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MickinMD ★ Posted November 17, 2021 Share #31 Posted November 17, 2021 IF you love your work and can continue doing it, it's a great thing to keep working. Of course, there are reasons to not want to work - especially if you have other things that keep you active. When I was working my way through college, I did not resent the rich kids who could pursue majors that fulfilled their passions without having to worry about whether or not it would pay the mortgage. I envied them and decided I was going to be like them when I retired. I wanted to be "independently wealthy," not rich but well-off enough that I could explore my interests. I wanted to begin studying piano, dig into history, travel, and do other things I didn't have time to do while working and was too poor to do as a kid. So when leg problems induced me to retire at 56 and I realized I had reach the conditions I had envisioned to act like those "rich kids," I retired from work and began to do those other things. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zephyr Posted November 17, 2021 Share #32 Posted November 17, 2021 22 hours ago, MoseySusan said: I’ll start recording myself reading classic novels and post the recordings on the web. Can you do "Dune" first, please? 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tizeye Posted November 17, 2021 Share #33 Posted November 17, 2021 The biggest reason not working past retirement age...lucky to get to it. I know so many people who were pushed out around 55 by the younger "gotta have it now" generation hoping to free up promotions for themselves. Nowhere near the experience or insight for the position...but over-extended with the big mortgage and have the bills to pay, so conspire to kick out older more senior workers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ralphie ★ Posted November 17, 2021 Share #34 Posted November 17, 2021 3 hours ago, Tizeye said: The biggest reason not working past retirement age...lucky to get to it. I know so many people who were pushed out around 55 by the younger "gotta have it now" generation hoping to free up promotions for themselves. Nowhere near the experience or insight for the position...but over-extended with the big mortgage and have the bills to pay, so conspire to kick out older more senior workers. We had a woman, 66, die one day before she was due to retaar. That was an eye opener. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Parr8hed Posted November 17, 2021 Share #35 Posted November 17, 2021 I honestly just don't like my job enough. Maybe I will feel different once the kids are out of the house. I plan to retire, but semi-retire. I will prob do some travel nursing here and there. Live out of the camper for a bit. Of course it will have to be a bigger one... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dottleshead ★ Posted November 17, 2021 Share #36 Posted November 17, 2021 On 11/16/2021 at 8:26 AM, Wilbur said: People are always asking when I plan to retire. I don't. Why would I? I have a job that I love doing. It is always changing, often challenging and it involves cutting edge technological advancements. Look at musicians. The Rolling Stones certainly have no financial need to work but they love what they do and are happiest when doing it. In my case, health will determine my length of years as a pilot. So, there will come a time but hopefully not too soon. I am still having too much fun. Just look better than Kieth Richards when doing it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ralphie ★ Posted November 17, 2021 Share #37 Posted November 17, 2021 7 minutes ago, Parr8hed said: I honestly just don't like my job enough. Maybe I will feel different once the kids are out of the house. I plan to retire, but semi-retire. I will prob do some travel nursing here and there. Live out of the camper for a bit. Of course it will have to be a bigger one... I have burned oot and relit myself a few times. The last 10 years I have had first neutral and now awesome bosses so that goes a heck of a long way toward ameliorating burnoot. I am on the fence aboot the sem-retaarment thing. Somedays I figure maybe two days a week of work would be good, and on others I say Phuket. What I do need is a second act. I would like to do something with helping olde phartes who might have some dementia find ways to deal with it. I have always been interested in good design and such, you know, like the opposite of voice mail hell and such. My dream job has always been a think tank. But too often I try to think and nothing happens! 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ralphie ★ Posted November 17, 2021 Share #38 Posted November 17, 2021 8 minutes ago, Dottles said: Just look better than Kieth Richards when doing it. Keith looks marvelous! Like eternal life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Road Runner Posted November 17, 2021 Share #39 Posted November 17, 2021 Many days, I work a lot harder post-retirement than I did when I was "working". 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ralphie ★ Posted November 17, 2021 Share #40 Posted November 17, 2021 1 minute ago, Road Runner said: Many days, I work a lot harder post-retirement than I did when I was "working". Don't tell me that shit! I will never retaar! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tizeye Posted November 17, 2021 Share #41 Posted November 17, 2021 31 minutes ago, Philander Seabury said: We had a woman, 66, die one day before she was due to retaar. That was an eye opener. Similar happened to my BIL. But he was obese, heart and other health problems, and suspect he knew was imminent. A couple weeks earlier, he created a slideshow on his life as a memorial. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Road Runner Posted November 17, 2021 Share #42 Posted November 17, 2021 6 minutes ago, Philander Seabury said: Don't tell me that shit! I will never retaar! Working at a desk job and then paying people to do stuff is probably easier than trying to do it all yourself. If you have a lot to do. Mostly around the house, I mean. I could easily work 4-6 hours a day, 5 days a week, in my yard, garage, vehicles, bicycles, household chores, etc 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ralphie ★ Posted November 17, 2021 Share #43 Posted November 17, 2021 5 minutes ago, Road Runner said: Working at a desk job and then paying people to do stuff is probably easier than trying to do it all yourself. If you have a lot to do. Mostly around the house, I mean. I could easily work 4-6 hours a day, 5 days a week, in my yard, garage, vehicles, bicycles, household chores, etc I am of course quite familiar with returning to work after a day or two off to recover. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Road Runner Posted November 17, 2021 Popular Post Share #44 Posted November 17, 2021 42 minutes ago, Philander Seabury said: We had a woman, 66, die one day before she was due to retaar. That was an eye opener. I had a good friend in my office die shortly after he retired at the ripe old age of 55 from skin cancer (melanoma) on his back. Please, everyone keep an eye on your back for suspicious moles! Partly as a result of my friend's early death, I decided to retire as soon as I became eligible, just to assure that I would be able to enjoy at least a few years of retirement before I, too, kicked the bucket. I have now been retired for 18 years. 5 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ralphie ★ Posted November 17, 2021 Share #45 Posted November 17, 2021 15 minutes ago, Road Runner said: I had a good friend in my office die shortly after he retired at the ripe old age of 55 from skin cancer (melanoma) on his back. Please, everyone keep an eye on your back for suspicious moles! Partly as a result of my friend's early death, I decided to retire as soon as I became eligible, just to assure that I would be able to enjoy at least a few years of retirement before I, too, kicked the bucket. I have now been retired for 18 years. Did you ever miss work? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sheep_herder ★ Posted November 17, 2021 Share #46 Posted November 17, 2021 I have been out 15 years and have never missed working at the lab. I know some of you will say I've never retired. However, what I do now, is easier than when I was trying to do both. I also hire more done now. Luckily we can afford the help. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Road Runner Posted November 17, 2021 Share #47 Posted November 17, 2021 1 minute ago, Philander Seabury said: Did you ever miss work? No. I already had a bunch of extensive home projects that I had been putting off. That was also about the time that I started a new hobby of bicycle riding. It sounds strange, I know, but cycling can be fun, healthy, time consuming, and very rewarding, even. It can also be dangerous for those of us who are accident prone. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AirwickWithCheese Posted November 17, 2021 Share #48 Posted November 17, 2021 No retirement, Wilbur. Just a new venture with a lavender farm. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Road Runner Posted November 17, 2021 Share #49 Posted November 17, 2021 23 minutes ago, Philander Seabury said: Did you ever miss work? I also think that most of us have jobs where parts of the job, we love and might would like to keep doing. But other parts of the job are a royal pain in the ass and we would cherish not having to do those things anymore. So I think the bad stuff going away tends to offset the loss of the good stuff when we retire. Just eliminating getting up at 4:30 AM each morning and the 30 mile heavy commute each way were huge factors in making sure I did not miss working. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ralphie ★ Posted November 17, 2021 Share #50 Posted November 17, 2021 7 minutes ago, Road Runner said: I also think that most of us have jobs where parts of the job, we love and might would like to keep doing. But other parts of the job are a royal pain in the ass and we would cherish not having to do those things anymore. So I think the bad stuff going away tends to offset the loss of the good stuff when we retire. Just eliminating getting up at 4:30 AM each morning and the 30 mile heavy commute each way were huge factors in making sure I did not miss working. Yuppers, that is the worst part for me too. And the corporate bullshit too of course. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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