Old HS GF reaching out?

[ChrisL]

She is now friends with my brother & has been asking about me. Even sent him a picture….  My brother is telling me that he’s really uncomfortable with her asking him so many questions about me.

We broke up in 1986 and I haven’t seen her since the early 2000’s when I bumped into her at the mall.  She gave me a very uncomfortably long hug with my wife & kids standing there…  I did keep in touch with her parents as her mom was my kids lunch lady in elementary school.  Her folks were good people but both have passed.

I told my bro to just unfriend her if he’s not comfortable with her questions, I really have nothing to say to her.  It is odd tho. 

[shootingstar]

It's wise you asked bro to unfriend her.

[Bikeguy]

11 minutes ago, ChrisL said:

She is now friends with my brother & has been asking about me. Even sent him a picture….  My brother is telling me that he’s really uncomfortable with her asking him so many questions about me.

That's kind of creepy...  almost like a stalker.   

Have you ever seen a Life Time Movie?   

[ChrisL]

4 minutes ago, Bikeguy said:

That's kind of creepy...  almost like a stalker.   

Have you ever seen a Life Time Movie?   

No, should I be worried? 

[MickinMD ★]

There are a couple old high school friends, one a dated a couple times, who are now retired and widows, haven't kept up their health very well, and are looking for a guy who owns a house, has good health insurance and a good retirement income.  Friends tell me they have HH branded on their foreheads: Husband Hunters.  I've been lucky enough not to have crossed paths with them.

[Thaddeus Kosciuszko]

Tell your brother to send her contact information to Parr8.

Because Parr8 will know what to do. 

[Prophet Zacharia]

55 minutes ago, Thaddeus Kosciuszko said:

Tell your brother to send her contact information to Parr8.

Because Parr8 will know what to do. 

Let’s see the picture, first. But yeah, he probably would.

[maddmaxx ★]

[Zealot]

Sometimes it’s just curiosity. But, keeping your distance may be the best thing for your relationship with your wife. 

[Airehead ★]

Sounds like regrets on her part. Your brother should not be uncomfortable on his own social media. Unfriend or set to ignore. 

[ChrisL]

5 hours ago, Prophet Zacharia said:

Let’s see the picture, first. But yeah, he probably would.

I don’t have it and don’t want it….

[ChrisL]

4 hours ago, Zealot said:

Sometimes it’s just curiosity. But, keeping your distance may be the best thing for your relationship with your wife. 

I was thinking this as well.  Nothing to be gained here and reaching out would only hurt my wife.  

[ChrisL]

11 hours ago, MickinMD said:

There are a couple old high school friends, one a dated a couple times, who are now retired and widows, haven't kept up their health very well, and are looking for a guy who owns a house, has good health insurance and a good retirement income.  Friends tell me they have HH branded on their foreheads: Husband Hunters.  I've been lucky enough not to have crossed paths with them.

Oh so that’s what that mark is on my MIL’s forehead! 😂.   Sure you don’t want to take her off our hands Mick???? 

[MoseySusan ★]

Where does the time go? 

[Ralphie ★]

2 minutes ago, MoseySusan said:

Where does the time go? 

Cleveland?

[Bikeguy]

17 hours ago, ChrisL said:

No, should I be worried? 

Yes... 

The short version.   Your old HS GF has been living off of the wealth of unsuspecting men for years.  They all end up dead.   She enters your life.  Sooner than later you end up dead and she sells off your stuff for money and moves on to the next ex boyfriend victim.  Then repeats the process...  

 

[Bikeguy]

7 hours ago, ChrisL said:

11 hours ago, Zealot said:

keeping your distance may be the best thing for your relationship with your wife. 

I was thinking this as well.  Nothing to be gained here and reaching out would only hurt my wife.  

Good idea... 

[Kirby ★]

7 hours ago, ChrisL said:

I was thinking this as well.  Nothing to be gained here and reaching out would only hurt my wife.  

Very wise decision.

[KrAzY]

I only keep in touch with one of my Ex's from years ago, but than again it was a mutual breakup in the early 90's and I turned into a big brother to her and protected her against her dumbass new boyfriend that knocked her up (about 2 years after we stopped dating). 
Her dad was cool, and loved old cars also. We got along too well and he was sad when her and I broke up. 
 

[ChrisL]

20 minutes ago, Bikeguy said:

Yes... 

The short version.   Your old HS GF has been living off of the wealth of unsuspecting men for years.  They all end up dead.   She enters your life.  Sooner than later you end up dead and she sells off your stuff for money and moves on to the next ex boyfriend victim.  Then repeats the process...  

 

Oh dayum!

[Bikeguy]

5 minutes ago, ChrisL said:

Oh dayum!

Yeah... some of those Life Time movies have rather bad endings for husbands.   

Hmm.. Now I'm concerned why does WoBG pick these movies to watch?   

[maddmaxx ★]

7 hours ago, Philander Seabury said:

Cleveland?

I'm sure it was Chicago, not Cleveland.

[Kzoo]

1 hour ago, Bikeguy said:

Yes... 

The short version.   Your old HS GF has been living off of the wealth of unsuspecting men for years.  They all end up dead.   She enters your life.  Sooner than later you end up dead and she sells off your stuff for money and moves on to the next ex boyfriend victim.  Then repeats the process...  

 

I get his stuff.

[groupw]

I almost crossed a line a few years back. We never dated, but a popular girl (homecoming queen)and I were the only people from our class to have the last lunch period. We got to be close. She had been with a guy for a long time. They split up our senior year. I had always felt she was out of my league, but she said some things that made me think I had a chance. By the time I built up the courage and was going to ask her out, she said she was seeing another guy. I knew him. He was a couple years older but if it couldn’t be me, he was a great guy. 
Fast forward and our lives intersected a lot over the years. She cut WoW’s hair. She divorced the first guy (she admits it was her fault) Husband #2 I knew from grade school in another town. He was a jerk then. I hoped he had changed. He hadn’t. 
Husband #3 seemed nice in the surface. Found out after they moved to CO that things took a very bad turn. She was isolated from outside contact for a couple years before she got out. We had inner with her when she came back. She asked us to call if we passed through. 
A few years ago we did. We met her and her new fiancé for brunch and walked around Ft Collins. She and I caught up and WoW and her fiancé talked a lot. When we had to leave, she gave me an intense hug. I could feel emotions from her that I meant more than I thought. When we released, there was a look in her eyes I only saw once before and it wasn’t for me. I almost kissed her. I didn’t but the emotions were noticed by WoW. When we left, she asked if I knew she felt that way about me and I told her I had no idea. 
We were invited to the wedding that fall. She was excited we came, but things felt more normal. It was apparent they may have talked too. Her new husband spent a little more time with me that weekend. It was weird in a good way. He wanted to establish that she was her husband, but understood why we mean a lot to each other. We still talk about getting together. He has an old Fiat roadster that he wants us to take with out Miata to Estes Park. We just have to figure when our roadster travel seasons will match up. 

[2Far]

20 hours ago, Bikeguy said:

 

Have you ever seen a Life Time Movie?   

I was thinking NBC’s “Dateline”. 

[sheep_herder ★]

Old girlfriends, reminds me of when a gal I dated in high school came into the store where my mom and new fiancé worked to check out the new gal I had brought to town from Colorado.

[Gump]

23 hours ago, 2Far said:

I was thinking NBC’s “Dateline”. 

Or Jerry Springer