Square Wheels Posted September 14, 2015 Share #1 Posted September 14, 2015 (edited) Starting today we will offer and enforce a Separation Time Out Policy. This is in addition to our Guidelines.The policy can be found here. Edited September 14, 2015 by Square Wheels Changed from Separation to Time Out 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Longjohn ★ Posted September 14, 2015 Share #2 Posted September 14, 2015 Will it be possible to get a separation even if we are not legally married? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
F_in Ray Of Sunshine Posted September 14, 2015 Share #3 Posted September 14, 2015 I like "Time Out Policy" better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Square Wheels Posted September 14, 2015 Author Share #4 Posted September 14, 2015 I like "Time Out Policy" better.Good idea, maybe I'll rename it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TrentonMakes Posted September 14, 2015 Share #5 Posted September 14, 2015 It sucks that such a policy is needed. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Square Wheels Posted September 14, 2015 Author Share #6 Posted September 14, 2015 It sucks that such a policy is needed. I'm tired of people leaving and hope this helps. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_Karen_Cooper_Incident Posted September 14, 2015 Share #7 Posted September 14, 2015 This is absolutely brilliant, SW. This gives you all the ammunition you need to ban the bad bean(s) here.I would like a separation from Jerry Garcia. Thanks!#Sizzle 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Indy Posted September 14, 2015 Share #8 Posted September 14, 2015 Finally, I need a separation from SW, he's way to overbearing 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Square Wheels Posted September 14, 2015 Author Share #9 Posted September 14, 2015 This is absolutely brilliant, SW. This gives you all the ammunition you need to ban the bad bean(s) here.Thanks, but it wasn't my idea. If it works well, I'll let people know who suggested it. If it's a flop I will take credit for it.I would like a separation from Jerry Garcia. Already banned.Finally, I need a separation from SW, he's way to overbearingGood point. Mods and admins cannot be placed in time out. Sorry, you're stuck with me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Page Turner Posted September 14, 2015 Share #10 Posted September 14, 2015 ...every trial separation I ever was involved in ended in divorce. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Square Wheels Posted September 14, 2015 Author Share #11 Posted September 14, 2015 ...every trial separation I ever was involved in ended in divorce. In this case it may work out well. If two people do nothing but argue here and they are forced to ignore one another for 30 days I hope it simply lasts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Page Turner Posted September 14, 2015 Share #12 Posted September 14, 2015 ...well I hope so. However, I cannot help but recall the words of Stuart Larkin, "Little boys who aren't polite give the pro-choice a better reason to exist." 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dottleshead ★ Posted September 14, 2015 Share #13 Posted September 14, 2015 Wait. What? There are policies here? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Randomguy Posted September 14, 2015 Share #14 Posted September 14, 2015 Why is this topic pinned? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Square Wheels Posted September 14, 2015 Author Share #15 Posted September 14, 2015 Why is this topic pinned?Just for you 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Randomguy Posted September 14, 2015 Share #16 Posted September 14, 2015 Just for youYay! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Page Turner Posted September 14, 2015 Share #17 Posted September 14, 2015 Yay!...as the United States of America, can you give me a Time Out from Donald Trump through election day in 2016 ? 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Page Turner Posted September 14, 2015 Share #18 Posted September 14, 2015 ...as the United States of America, can you give me a Time Out from Donald Trump through election day in 2016 ? ...also, a like would be appreciated. I've never been liked by the United States of America before, and in fact, was once handcuffed in the IRS office. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Randomguy Posted September 14, 2015 Share #19 Posted September 14, 2015 ...as the United States of America, can you give me a Time Out from Donald Trump through election day in 2016 ? You cannot give the next president a time out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maddmaxx ★ Posted September 14, 2015 Share #20 Posted September 14, 2015 ...also, a like would be appreciated. I've never been liked by the United States of America before, and in fact, was once handcuffed in the IRS office. Your fault. You went there expecting justice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dottleshead ★ Posted September 14, 2015 Share #21 Posted September 14, 2015 ...also, a like would be appreciated. I've never been liked by the United States of America before, and in fact, was once handcuffed in the IRS office. ... were those results any better than in your bedroom?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thaddeus Kosciuszko Posted September 14, 2015 Share #22 Posted September 14, 2015 If two people do nothing but argue here and they are forced to ignore one another for 30 days I hope it simply lasts. "You've chosen to ignore content by Square Wheels." Thy wish is granted. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_Karen_Cooper_Incident Posted September 14, 2015 Share #23 Posted September 14, 2015 "You've chosen to ignore content by Square Wheels." Thy wish is granted. It's good to see you back, TK. Couch missed you. #SizzleMcDizzle Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MoseySusan Posted September 14, 2015 Share #24 Posted September 14, 2015 Time Out by itself has limited power to affect changes in pro-social behavior. Recent research suggests that isolating offenders may have the opposite effect; reinforcing socially unacceptable behavior in the absence of appropriate models, reinforcement for cooperation, and direct guidance in the event of error. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JerrySTL ★ Posted September 14, 2015 Share #25 Posted September 14, 2015 I think a "Go Stand In The Corner Until Your Father Gets Home" policy might be a good idea. It sure worked on me when I was younger. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Page Turner Posted September 14, 2015 Share #26 Posted September 14, 2015 Recent research suggests ... and direct guidance in the event of error. ...it's about damn time that beating children became fashionable again. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Road Runner Posted September 15, 2015 Share #27 Posted September 15, 2015 This policy is unwieldy, capricious and just downright silly. If someone is causing a problem, ban them for 30 days and be done with it. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ralphie ★ Posted September 15, 2015 Share #28 Posted September 15, 2015 (edited) Time Out by itself has limited power to affect changes in pro-social behavior. Recent research suggests that isolating offenders may have the opposite effect; reinforcing socially unacceptable behavior in the absence of appropriate models, reinforcement for cooperation, and direct guidance in the event of error.Now who can argue with that? I think we're all indebted to roadsue for clearly stating what needed to be said. I'm particularly glad that these lovely forumites were here today to hear that speech. Not only was it authentic teacher gibberish, it expressed a courage little seen in this day and age.[forumites murmur and nod in approval] Edited September 15, 2015 by The Inedible Bulk 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rattlecan ★ Posted September 15, 2015 Share #29 Posted September 15, 2015 I think the only thing that is effective is a good spanking. None of that other crap works. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kzoo Posted September 15, 2015 Share #30 Posted September 15, 2015 Time Out by itself has limited power to affect changes in pro-social behavior. Recent research suggests that isolating offenders may have the opposite effect; reinforcing socially unacceptable behavior in the absence of appropriate models, reinforcement for cooperation, and direct guidance in the event of error.I have no idea what she said but I completely agree. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MoseySusan Posted September 15, 2015 Share #31 Posted September 15, 2015 Now who can argue with that? I think we're all indebted to roadsue for clearly stating what needed to be said. I'm particularly glad that these lovely forumites were here today to hear that speech. Not only was it authentic teacher gibberish, it expressed a courage little seen in this day and age.[forumites murmur and nod in approval] That's prison reform gibberish. Solitary confinement doesn't work. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LoneWolf Posted September 15, 2015 Share #32 Posted September 15, 2015 That's prison reform gibberish. Solitary confinement doesn't work.Sooo....we put them in gen pop and spread a rumor they committed a crime against small furry animals? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Randomguy Posted September 15, 2015 Share #33 Posted September 15, 2015 Time Out by itself has limited power to affect changes in pro-social behavior. Recent research suggests that isolating offenders may have the opposite effect; reinforcing socially unacceptable behavior in the absence of appropriate models, reinforcement for cooperation, and direct guidance in the event of error.Hmm, I don't think the policy is meant to change or shape social behavior on a broad scale, but can function to curtail someone if they just can't help themselves when they feel like being a butthead to someone else in this particular corner of the internet,. Very narrow scope.People have to want to change, or it doesn't happen. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maddmaxx ★ Posted September 15, 2015 Share #34 Posted September 15, 2015 That's prison reform gibberish. Solitary confinement doesn't work.It does if it's long enough. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ahsposo Posted September 15, 2015 Share #35 Posted September 15, 2015 This video will help explain the new policy: 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thaddeus Kosciuszko Posted September 15, 2015 Share #36 Posted September 15, 2015 My children would argue, and I'd tell them "Stop arguing, work it out, or I will put you each in a corner. Either way, I don't have to hear you argue. You decide whether to settle your differences quietly or stand in the corner and think about it." Sometimes they chose to work it out, sometimes they stood in the corner. In the end, I don't care if putting Forumites in 'time out' or 'solitary' creates a change in their behavior or not. I don't expect that at their age (notice I didn't say adult), the people arguing will change.I do like the policy because it creates a more positive atmosphere here. I see that as the aim of the policy.If the people eventually change, then fine. Praise for their insight. If not, the effects of the policy are the same in creating a better Forum in that we do not have to suffer with their immaturity. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Randomguy Posted September 15, 2015 Share #37 Posted September 15, 2015 My children would argue, and I'd tell them "Stop arguing, work it out, or I will put you each in a corner. Either way, I don't have to hear you argue. You decide whether to settle your differences quietly or stand in the corner and think about it." Sometimes they chose to work it out, sometimes they stood in the corner. In the end, I don't care if putting Forumites in 'time out' or 'solitary' creates a change in their behavior or not. I don't expect that at their age (notice I didn't say adult), the people arguing will change.I do like the policy because it creates a more positive atmosphere here. I see that as the aim of the policy.If the people eventually change, then fine. Praise for their insight. If not, the effects of the policy are the same in creating a better Forum in that we do not have to suffer with their immaturity.But immaturity is our stock in trade! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Page Turner Posted September 15, 2015 Share #38 Posted September 15, 2015 But immaturity is our stock in trade!...so Wilbur is visiting you in Brooklyn ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Randomguy Posted September 15, 2015 Share #39 Posted September 15, 2015 ...so Wilbur is visiting you in Brooklyn ? Theoretically, and he said he was going to buy when he is out here! Yay!Actually, though, I may be out of here soon if I get the job in Boulder. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Page Turner Posted September 15, 2015 Share #40 Posted September 15, 2015 Theoretically, and he said he was going to buy when he is out here! Yay!Actually, though, I may be out of here soon if I get the job in Boulder....will they let you just cross the border from NYC into Colorado ? Don't you need a visa and a return ticket ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Randomguy Posted September 15, 2015 Share #41 Posted September 15, 2015 ...will they let you just cross the border from NYC into Colorado ? Don't you need a visa and a return ticket ?I will find a coyote. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
charlie burgh Posted September 15, 2015 Share #42 Posted September 15, 2015 So I lurk from time to time and notice a common thread and it is one person that causes issues like this to arise.This person, lets call him "Tom", is consistently stirring the pot, whether they know it or not. Tom reacts if confronted, and in turn others react and it goes on and on. Tom has done this here and on the LF (banned from) and is the reason I have removed myself from both as well. I feel Tom may be very smart, but can't seem to have a discussion, heated or not, without name calling. Some name calling is done in jest, but Tom takes it to an another level. Even the few who say they "like" Tom have even commented on his behavior and he doesn't seem to take the hint. I have spoken to quite a few who post here, some of whom have left, and they all feel the same...this one person is ruining this forum for the remaining folks here.So how does this get resolved before the last person to leave turns the lights off?#peace 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maddmaxx ★ Posted September 15, 2015 Share #43 Posted September 15, 2015 Perhaps a laying on of hands. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Page Turner Posted September 15, 2015 Share #44 Posted September 15, 2015 ...#counterpunch Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ahsposo Posted September 15, 2015 Share #45 Posted September 15, 2015 Black Flag? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wilbur ★ Posted September 15, 2015 Share #46 Posted September 15, 2015 Theoretically, and he said he was going to buy when he is out here! Yay!Actually, though, I may be out of here soon if I get the job in Boulder.If you are there the next time I am in town, I will be buying RG. Actually, that goes for anybody I may visit with. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wilbur ★ Posted September 15, 2015 Share #47 Posted September 15, 2015 Starting today we will offer and enforce a Separation Time Out Policy. This is in addition to our Guidelines.The policy can be found here.I think every gen pop forum needs a little control of members relative to offensive or harassment posts. This is a well thought out solution. I for one like it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Square Wheels Posted September 16, 2015 Author Share #48 Posted September 16, 2015 I think every gen pop forum needs a little control of members relative to offensive or harassment posts. This is a well thought out solution. I for one like it. thank you but credit does not go to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dottleshead ★ Posted September 16, 2015 Share #49 Posted September 16, 2015 thank you but credit does not go to me.well, shoot, give it to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_Karen_Cooper_Incident Posted September 16, 2015 Share #50 Posted September 16, 2015 well, shoot, give it to me.Make it so.#IHaveSpoken Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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