Road Runner Posted October 16, 2017 Share #1 Posted October 16, 2017 I have. I used to relish squashing a bug or killing a fly. Nothing was more fun than killing a spider. But nowadays, I go out of my way to avoid harming these same defenseless creatures. Do you think this an age thing or a reflection of societal change? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zephyr Posted October 16, 2017 Share #2 Posted October 16, 2017 For sure i ....... hang on. YOU BLASTED KIDS, GET OFF MY LAWN!! 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dinneR Posted October 16, 2017 Share #3 Posted October 16, 2017 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bikeman564™ Posted October 16, 2017 Share #4 Posted October 16, 2017 I feel I'm gentler and kinder w/ age 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kzoo Posted October 16, 2017 Share #5 Posted October 16, 2017 Yes. I have become a kinder and gentler Kzoo with age. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Randomguy Posted October 16, 2017 Share #6 Posted October 16, 2017 42 minutes ago, Road Runner said: I have. I used to relish squashing a bug or killing a fly. Nothing was more fun than killing a spider. But nowadays, I go out of my way to avoid harming these same defenseless creatures. Do you think this an age thing or a reflection of societal change? Maybe a little societal change, sure. Also the mellowing that comes with living a goodly while makes you appreciate the bs that all the little spiders go through just to get a meal. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wilbur Posted October 16, 2017 Share #7 Posted October 16, 2017 Kinder and more understanding, yes. Forgiving, yes. Aware of the feelings of others and how my actions affect them, yes. Gentler, not a effin chance. If a hit is needed, make it count. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ltdskilz Posted October 16, 2017 Share #8 Posted October 16, 2017 Spiders are never defenseless. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Further Posted October 16, 2017 Share #9 Posted October 16, 2017 Much mellower Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maddmaxx Posted October 16, 2017 Share #10 Posted October 16, 2017 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scrapr Posted October 16, 2017 Share #11 Posted October 16, 2017 I picked up 2 worms off the sidewalk on my am walk and tossed them in the grass Yes. I am changed forever by that small act why do you ask? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fret Buzz Posted October 16, 2017 Share #12 Posted October 16, 2017 3 hours ago, Road Runner said: I have. I used to relish squashing a bug or killing a fly. Nothing was more fun than killing a spider. But nowadays, I go out of my way to avoid harming these same defenseless creatures. Do you think this an age thing or a reflection of societal change? I draw the non-killing line at ticks, fireants, roaches, mosquitoes, and gnats. I added gnats simply because I kill dozens on a Fall ride, and I don't want that weighing too hard on my conscience. I just tell myself they deserved it! But why anyone would kill a spider on purpose is beyond my comprehension. Tom 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kirby Posted October 16, 2017 Share #13 Posted October 16, 2017 My Mom always taught us to take spiders outside (she loved Charlotte's Web). I think I've probably gotten grouchier in some ways and more easy going in others. There were things I used to worry about that I now realize don't really matter, and I'm not going to get worked up over them. However, I'm probably also more set in my ways than I used to be. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
donkpow Posted October 16, 2017 Share #14 Posted October 16, 2017 I avoid the senseless killing but I don't treat people better. They deserve it. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Longjohn Posted October 16, 2017 Share #15 Posted October 16, 2017 I’m fairly kind to people, pesky critters not so much. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maddmaxx Posted October 16, 2017 Share #16 Posted October 16, 2017 Having been screwed up by a spider bite this summer for about a month I'll do any of them that get within reach. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roadiejorge Posted October 16, 2017 Share #17 Posted October 16, 2017 I always cared for animals. I had quite a few pets and I've had representatives from just about every group that you can keep as pets. Insects are the only ones I had not interest in as pets. I still have aquariums which started after my daughter wanted a fish. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Road Runner Posted October 16, 2017 Author Share #18 Posted October 16, 2017 I still kill mosquitoes when they are in the process of drawing my blood. Nasty little devils. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
12string Posted October 16, 2017 Share #19 Posted October 16, 2017 I believe I/m about 5/8ths of the way through my transition from "outta my way old man" to "get off my lawn". So for now, mellow. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roadiejorge Posted October 16, 2017 Share #20 Posted October 16, 2017 1 minute ago, Road Runner said: I still kill mosquitoes when they are in the process of drawing my blood. Nasty little devils. Yeah, moochers get treated they would as if they were feeding off of anything else with the ability to swat away. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Airehead Posted October 17, 2017 Share #21 Posted October 17, 2017 My creed is to do my work well and be kind. Sometimes I fail at both. If I live to bee 100 I might get it right. Today I fired someone but I think I was kind to them in the process. It still sucked. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BuffJim Posted October 17, 2017 Share #22 Posted October 17, 2017 Of course I am, Dipshit. Can't believe you needed to ask. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thaddeus Kosciuszko Posted October 17, 2017 Share #23 Posted October 17, 2017 With family and friends I do try to be gentle and kind; rarely utter a sharp word, interact on the basis that the person has the best intentions at heart. All others from the start get the same respect and courtesy from me that I would wish to receive from them. After that, they get the respect, kindness, and gentleness that they have earned by their behavior. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tybeegb Posted October 17, 2017 Share #24 Posted October 17, 2017 Yes, and no. Bugs and such outside I leave alone, and I hate to have to terminate them in the house. However, I have become much, much less tolerant of the higher life forms, like humans. I used to be pretty laid back, but now-a-days I have a really hard time keeping my temper in check. Recent example: Just the other day we were outside watching a college football game. Kids were playing in the yard. #2 son asked grandson to run upstairs and get the TV remote. Grandson looked at him and said "Awww but I'm playing" and started kicking at the grass with a pouty face and mumbled something else under his breath. When #2 son asked him again and got the same response I blurted out in my redneck Grampa voice "Get your ass upstairs and get the remote for your Daddy! Now!" At which point it was like he was shot out of a cannon and #2 son gave me that "I remember those days" look but said nothing. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pedalphile Posted October 17, 2017 Share #25 Posted October 17, 2017 Sadly, yes. I doubt there's even a cure. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Longjohn Posted October 17, 2017 Share #26 Posted October 17, 2017 26 minutes ago, tybeegb said: n #2 son asked him again and got the same response I blurted out in my redneck Grampa voice "Get your ass upstairs and get the remote for your Daddy! Now!" At which point it was like he was shot out of a cannon and #2 son gave me that "I remember those days" look but said nothing. Lol, love the redneck gramma voice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Square Wheels Posted October 17, 2017 Share #27 Posted October 17, 2017 Yes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TrentonMakes Posted October 17, 2017 Share #28 Posted October 17, 2017 I have always been pretty gentle - however, lately I feel like I generally have less patience, and I more quickly transition from frustration to anger. If I see a spider in the house I just leave him alone. If the others see him, leaving him alone is generally not acceptable so I get them outside. Not centipedes though..... they go squish. Sorry. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UglyBob Posted October 17, 2017 Share #29 Posted October 17, 2017 Let's see...what's the word I'm looking for? Oh, yeah...the word is NO! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ralphie Posted October 17, 2017 Share #30 Posted October 17, 2017 I think I am getting a little crankier, year by year. Er, I mean . 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Further Posted October 17, 2017 Share #31 Posted October 17, 2017 I've definitely become lazier, rather than get into a pointless argument about meaningless BS, I just say 'Okee Dokee' and let it go. I'm nowhere as fast to flip a bird when driving. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sheep_herder Posted October 18, 2017 Share #32 Posted October 18, 2017 One learns to more effectively pick their battles with age. We don't have to win them all. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris... Posted October 18, 2017 Share #33 Posted October 18, 2017 yes, it could be the drugs though. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
donkpow Posted October 18, 2017 Share #34 Posted October 18, 2017 I am trying not to get upset by people who tell me, "Get off the road!" I practice by anticipating that someone will say it an I don't react. Someone honked a horn at me the other day and I didn't even bother to look at them right away, let alone wave them to the side of the road for a knock down. I am Mister Mellow on a bike, I hope you know. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Road Runner Posted October 18, 2017 Author Share #35 Posted October 18, 2017 5 minutes ago, donkpow said: "Get off the road!" People must be really nice where you live. Around here, all I ever hear is "Get off the fucking road!" 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
donkpow Posted October 18, 2017 Share #36 Posted October 18, 2017 Just now, Road Runner said: People must be really nice where you live. Around here, all I ever hear is "Get off the fucking road!" They are. One day I was riding along and a couple of guys pass me on a four lane. One hollers, "Get off the road!" They drive on down the road. I catch them at the light and pass them. At which point I hollered, "Get off the road!". The guy leans out the passenger window, gives me a big grin, and lets out a big laugh. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ralphie Posted December 30, 2017 Share #37 Posted December 30, 2017 This was a good thread. I was very kind and gentle as I went through it handing oot likes like candy. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wilbur Posted December 30, 2017 Share #38 Posted December 30, 2017 On 2017-10-16 at 12:49 PM, Road Runner said: I have. I used to relish squashing a bug or killing a fly. Nothing was more fun than killing a spider. But nowadays, I go out of my way to avoid harming these same defenseless creatures. Do you think this an age thing or a reflection of societal change? Senility 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zephyr Posted December 30, 2017 Share #39 Posted December 30, 2017 I am (mentally and psychologically) softening with age. Being super intense required a lot of effort Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wilbur Posted December 31, 2017 Share #40 Posted December 31, 2017 1 hour ago, Zephyr said: I am (mentally and psychologically) softening with age. Being super intense required a lot of effort I would still let you get between me and a shark. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shootingstar Posted December 31, 2017 Share #41 Posted December 31, 2017 Only forgiving to folks who try hard to adjust, learn in their own way. Others who aren't trying to learn or understand others, just tend to call them out or walk away. Takes too much energy. I probably have become more set in my ways than I realize: I expect the world to be fairer, kinder. Yea, utopia still on my mind. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
onbike1939 Posted December 31, 2017 Share #42 Posted December 31, 2017 I think it is timely to ask this question and I've reached an age where reviewing ones own nature seems to be natural given what's ahead. I find the best way to understand and express my feelings is by writing poetry. I am kinder now. I am kinder now much kinder than I used to be when I was young and had no thought of an ending or that life could be other than this... the now. I see the birds at winter-time and wonder how with fragile bone and feather they last out the hard-bitten days and hate those who would hunt the Hare whose bed is but a hollow in a blasted field. I wonder that these small things can face this world unaided yet undaunted by the task and see my passage when compared... as somehow less. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MickinMD Posted December 31, 2017 Share #43 Posted December 31, 2017 When I was young I had much the same naive optimism and love of everyone as Tom Hanks title character in "Forest Gump." Now I have the cynicism and meanness of Max Goldman, Walter Matthau's character in "Grumpy Old Men." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ralphie Posted December 31, 2017 Share #44 Posted December 31, 2017 3 minutes ago, MickinMD said: When I was young I had much the same naive optimism and love of everyone as Tom Hanks title character in "Forest Gump." Now I have the cynicism and meanness of Max Goldman, Walter Matthau's character in "Grumpy Old Men." I am more jack lemmon. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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