Randomguy Posted December 28, 2018 Share #1 Posted December 28, 2018 I just sent two pointless emails to people I had gotten pretty far in the interview process with. I thanked them for their time and to see if there was any feedback they could give me as to why they mistakenly gave the job to someone else. What are the odds that they respond with feedback? The letters were very nice, just so you know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kzoo Posted December 28, 2018 Share #2 Posted December 28, 2018 2 minutes ago, Randomguy said: I just sent two pointless emails to people I had gotten pretty far in the interview process with. I thanked them for their time and to see if there was any feedback they could give me as to why they mistakenly gave the job to someone else. What are the odds that they respond with feedback? The letters were very nice, just so you know. They have 2 hours to get done everything they need to get done before the end of the year and you want them to spend their time to tell you how you messed up. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BuffJim Posted December 28, 2018 Share #3 Posted December 28, 2018 Lesson learned. Next time do some research on your interviewer. You should be able to dig up enough dirt that they feel compelled to give you the job, and play nice with you during your tenure. 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AirwickWithCheese Posted December 28, 2018 Share #4 Posted December 28, 2018 You are a beautiful person, well mostly. I don't understand this rejection. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris... Posted December 28, 2018 Share #5 Posted December 28, 2018 they probably checked your social media. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Randomguy Posted December 28, 2018 Author Share #6 Posted December 28, 2018 6 minutes ago, Kzoo said: They have 2 hours to get done everything they need to get done before the end of the year and you want them to spend their time to tell you how you messed up. Yes. Well, one is out of the office, and the other one is probably drunk already. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Randomguy Posted December 28, 2018 Author Share #7 Posted December 28, 2018 1 minute ago, Chris... said: they probably checked your social media. They can't! At least I think I have my profile set to private except for friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Road Runner Posted December 28, 2018 Share #8 Posted December 28, 2018 19 minutes ago, Randomguy said: The letters were very nice, just so you know. Did you use the word, "bastards"? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jsharr ★ Posted December 28, 2018 Share #9 Posted December 28, 2018 What are the odds they are members here and put 2 + 2 together? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Randomguy Posted December 28, 2018 Author Share #10 Posted December 28, 2018 11 minutes ago, Road Runner said: Did you use the word, "bastards"? Not too much, just the right amount. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kzoo Posted December 28, 2018 Share #11 Posted December 28, 2018 28 minutes ago, Randomguy said: They can't! At least I think I have my profile set to private except for friends. Right... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jsharr ★ Posted December 28, 2018 Share #12 Posted December 28, 2018 31 minutes ago, Chris... said: they probably checked your social media. 30 minutes ago, Randomguy said: Yes. Well, one is out of the office, and the other one is probably drunk already. Some of us are whores who kiss and tell, if you know what I mean. I have been told it is unwise to kiss a whore. I have never tried. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kzoo Posted December 28, 2018 Share #13 Posted December 28, 2018 30 minutes ago, Chris... said: they probably checked your social media. They check every social media source then the federal, state and local criminal records. He's scrued. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kirby Posted December 28, 2018 Share #14 Posted December 28, 2018 I'm sorry you didn't get the jobs, but I agree that you are unlikely to get any useful information. In reality, there were probably a few people who were qualified for the job and the ultimate choice comes down to something pretty random. I hope the next time the random factors break in your favor. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Randomguy Posted December 28, 2018 Author Share #15 Posted December 28, 2018 1 minute ago, Kirby said: I hope the next time the random factors break in your favor. Me too, I also think I need to make my own luck in my luck-manufacturing facility. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Green Grass Posted December 28, 2018 Share #16 Posted December 28, 2018 1 hour ago, Randomguy said: What are the odds that they respond with feedback? You don't need their feedback. You are a middle-aged-white-male. You're fucked. 1 1 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post jsharr ★ Posted December 28, 2018 Popular Post Share #17 Posted December 28, 2018 1 minute ago, Goat Geddah said: You don't need their feedback. You are a middle-aged-white-male. You're fucked. He identifies as a 22 year old chick with big tits. 2 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Randomguy Posted December 28, 2018 Author Share #18 Posted December 28, 2018 15 minutes ago, jsharr said: He identifies as a 22 year old chick with big tits. And a chocolate bar, don't forget that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
2Far ★ Posted December 28, 2018 Share #19 Posted December 28, 2018 1) triple any timeline they give you for making a decision, especially this time of year. 2) Prolly should not have used Mookie, Nate and EPG as references. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jsharr ★ Posted December 28, 2018 Share #20 Posted December 28, 2018 14 minutes ago, Randomguy said: And a chocolate bar, don't forget that. https://imgur.com/gallery/jM28I 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Randomguy Posted January 2, 2019 Author Popular Post Share #21 Posted January 2, 2019 Both have responded to my emails, and had nice things to say. One said "Hope you had an excellent holiday and a happy new years! We ended up moving ahead with another candidate that had a bit more relevant / comparable experience. You did an excellent job in your interviews, and the overall feedback was very positive. Just got edged out by someone that was a bit stronger for this role specifically. I’d love to stay in touch and connect again if/when another opportunity becomes available!" That was the one where I had to do a 15-20 minute powerpoint presentation/pitch, btw. The other said they would marry me and have my children (conceptually) but no dice right now. They said based on my experience, that I was better suited for a different area for them, one that wasn't approved for hiring now. The HR person said "all thought you were an excellent candidate and they are passing for no other reason" and that they would reach out again when a position was available and "they (hiring manager and HR head) continue to sing your praises." It is nice to hear good feedback, at least they were cool enough to respond. 6 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Razors Edge ★ Posted January 2, 2019 Share #22 Posted January 2, 2019 On 12/28/2018 at 2:56 PM, Randomguy said: What are the odds that they respond with feedback? Have you taken the forum's advice to work on a really nice rack? That will definitely help any job search or waitressing you might do. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Road Runner Posted January 2, 2019 Share #23 Posted January 2, 2019 I hope they didn't hire someone else just because they had bigger breasts. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kzoo Posted January 2, 2019 Share #24 Posted January 2, 2019 5 minutes ago, Randomguy said: "Hope you had an excellent holiday and a happy new years! We ended up moving ahead with another candidate that had a bit more relevant / comparable experience. You did an excellent job in your interviews, and the overall feedback was very positive. Just got edged out by someone that was a bit stronger for this role specifically. I’d love to stay in touch and connect again if/when another opportunity becomes available!" Exactly what I would write if I wanted you out of my recruiting life. *milktoast* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dottleshead ★ Posted January 2, 2019 Share #25 Posted January 2, 2019 On 12/28/2018 at 1:34 PM, Goat Geddah said: You don't need their feedback. You are a middle-aged-white-male. You're fucked. ... on government assistance, no doubt. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Kirby Posted January 2, 2019 Popular Post Share #26 Posted January 2, 2019 If they had something bad to say, I think they just wouldn't have responded. Everyone is busy and the fact they took the time to respond suggests they're genuine in what they were saying. I hope the right job comes along soon, RG. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Razors Edge ★ Posted January 2, 2019 Share #27 Posted January 2, 2019 3 minutes ago, Dottles said: On 12/28/2018 at 4:34 PM, Goat Geddah said: You don't need their feedback. You are a middle-aged-white-male. You're fucked. ... on government assistance, no doubt. If your are fucked being a white guy, then there must be no hope for any one else, eh? Sort of scary. I think my last half-dozen owner/CEO's have been white middle class guys. Maybe they didn't get the memo. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dottleshead ★ Posted January 2, 2019 Share #28 Posted January 2, 2019 Please note that I'm a white guy that just likes getting fucked. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
12string Posted January 2, 2019 Share #29 Posted January 2, 2019 I'd bet they're both on forums somewhere talking about how they wanted to use the word "bastard" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dottleshead ★ Posted January 2, 2019 Share #30 Posted January 2, 2019 Any thread with 'bastard' in the title deserves more attention IMHO. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Airehead Posted January 2, 2019 Share #31 Posted January 2, 2019 I am sorry it did not work out. I know you felt good about the,. Don't let it hurt your mental game. Might be time to take something outside of your specialty Rea just to be working. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Parr8hed Posted January 3, 2019 Share #32 Posted January 3, 2019 On 12/28/2018 at 4:54 PM, 2Far said: 1) triple any timeline they give you for making a decision, especially this time of year. 2) Prolly should not have used Mookie, Nate and EPG as references. There's a blast from the past. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
2Far ★ Posted January 3, 2019 Share #33 Posted January 3, 2019 23 hours ago, Randomguy said: Both have responded to my emails, and had nice things to say. One said "Hope you had an excellent holiday and a happy new years! We ended up moving ahead with another candidate that had a bit more relevant / comparable experience. You did an excellent job in your interviews, and the overall feedback was very positive. Just got edged out by someone that was a bit stronger for this role specifically. I’d love to stay in touch and connect again if/when another opportunity becomes available!" That was the one where I had to do a 15-20 minute powerpoint presentation/pitch, btw. The other said they would marry me and have my children (conceptually) but no dice right now. They said based on my experience, that I was better suited for a different area for them, one that wasn't approved for hiring now. The HR person said "all thought you were an excellent candidate and they are passing for no other reason" and that they would reach out again when a position was available and "they (hiring manager and HR head) continue to sing your praises." It is nice to hear good feedback, at least they were cool enough to respond. That's a much better than normal return. On the management blog I read, the consensus is that nearly all hiring manager decline to provide feedback b/c of the high percentage of blow back they get after providing said feedback. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Randomguy Posted January 3, 2019 Author Share #34 Posted January 3, 2019 37 minutes ago, 2Far said: That's a much better than normal return. Yay! Like I said, I got pretty far, researched the hell out of the companies before interviewing, had solid questions, followed up, and was as professional as one can be without wearing pants. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jsharr ★ Posted January 3, 2019 Share #35 Posted January 3, 2019 23 hours ago, Randomguy said: Both have responded to my emails, and had nice things to say. One said "Hope you had an excellent holiday and a happy new years! We ended up moving ahead with another candidate that had a bit more relevant / comparable experience. You did an excellent job in your interviews, and the overall feedback was very positive. Just got edged out by someone that was a bit stronger for this role specifically. I’d love to stay in touch and connect again if/when another opportunity becomes available!" That was the one where I had to do a 15-20 minute powerpoint presentation/pitch, btw. The other said they would marry me and have my children (conceptually) but no dice right now. They said based on my experience, that I was better suited for a different area for them, one that wasn't approved for hiring now. The HR person said "all thought you were an excellent candidate and they are passing for no other reason" and that they would reach out again when a position was available and "they (hiring manager and HR head) continue to sing your praises." It is nice to hear good feedback, at least they were cool enough to respond. Damn! That sucks. Hopefully they will follow up soon with an offer from the other areas they thought you were a fit for. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
donkpow Posted January 3, 2019 Share #36 Posted January 3, 2019 The door is still open on the second one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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