This is true. Even though I knew it was coming, when he mentioned it, it just took me back to the awful place I was until just a few months ago.
I know that we are better apart, and he now has someone that loves him in a way that I can't, and I am happy for that. The really sad part for me is looking back at that young family that we were and that my kids don't have that any more. Yes, I know they are adults now, but I feel I failed them and broke the family unit.
I know that I have to let go of that and be proud of the fact that together we raised two amazing people that in their own ways have already made a difference to this planet, and will continue to do so, and neither one of us could have done it without the other.
It is now up to me to practice "Vairagya"