My kids are just launching. 18 and 20. Right now I’m encouraging home time with meals, and some pocket money with chores. I imagine in a few years I’ll give gifts of family vacations somewhere nice that they wouldn’t be able to afford on their own. I’m helping to pay with their schooling, and would contribute to home purchasing, grand kid’s 529 and/or small business start-up. But not to support a spending lifestyle they can’t maintain with their own wages.