Ralphie ★ Posted October 18, 2018 Share #1 Posted October 18, 2018 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maddmaxx ★ Posted October 18, 2018 Share #2 Posted October 18, 2018 There are too many damn grievances here already. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Randomguy Posted October 18, 2018 Share #3 Posted October 18, 2018 Maybe. I have grievances, believe me. I have regret because I didn't air grievances in the past that I should have, thinking that another person would pick up on things eventually (they never did). I should have brought out grievances that could have been resolved early on. On the other hand, sometimes you can sound like a grievance machine if all you do is air grievances to the four winds, and it builds no character if you don't suffer some and learn what is a big grievance and what is a mostly tolerable pain in the ass. Damned if you do, and also if you don't. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Parsnip Totin Jack ★ Posted October 18, 2018 Share #4 Posted October 18, 2018 "Nobody wants to hear your whiny ass" is my motto. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kzoo Posted October 18, 2018 Share #5 Posted October 18, 2018 No Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pedalphile Posted October 18, 2018 Share #6 Posted October 18, 2018 11 minutes ago, Always Wong said: No Anally retentive, then? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dottleshead ★ Posted October 19, 2018 Share #7 Posted October 19, 2018 Yes!! Get that shit out! Nothing good comes from incontinence. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dottleshead ★ Posted October 19, 2018 Share #8 Posted October 19, 2018 26 minutes ago, Always Wong said: No 14 minutes ago, pedalphile said: Anally retentive, then? He is. Got a fetish for rubbers too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kzoo Posted October 19, 2018 Share #9 Posted October 19, 2018 40 minutes ago, pedalphile said: Anally retentive, then? No Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Page Turner Posted October 19, 2018 Share #10 Posted October 19, 2018 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dottleshead ★ Posted October 19, 2018 Share #11 Posted October 19, 2018 2 hours ago, Always Wong said: No 2 hours ago, pedalphile said: Anally retentive, then? 1 hour ago, Always Wong said: No Denial problem too. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kzoo Posted October 19, 2018 Share #12 Posted October 19, 2018 9 minutes ago, Dottles said: Denial problem too. No. My teeth are fine. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dottleshead ★ Posted October 19, 2018 Share #13 Posted October 19, 2018 8 minutes ago, Always Wong said: No. My teeth are fine. Do you have to clean your denials? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dottleshead ★ Posted October 19, 2018 Share #14 Posted October 19, 2018 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Kirby Posted October 19, 2018 Popular Post Share #15 Posted October 19, 2018 No, it is best to harbor all animosities and nurture the grudges in the soil of pettiness and anger. 2 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Page Turner Posted October 19, 2018 Share #16 Posted October 19, 2018 ...I tend to agree. If we were all venting our grievances regularly, what would we do on Festivus ? Such a policy would more or less render the holiday obsolete. So now besides the war on Christmas, we have the war on Festivus. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dinneR ★ Posted October 19, 2018 Share #17 Posted October 19, 2018 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ralphie ★ Posted October 19, 2018 Author Share #18 Posted October 19, 2018 OTOH, dawgz and nice people are liked because they are not all up your keister and never say a discouraging word, so there is a lot to be said for staying mum, i 'spose. As long as you can neutralize the inner animosities. Serenity now! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maddmaxx ★ Posted October 19, 2018 Share #19 Posted October 19, 2018 2 hours ago, RalphWaldoMooseworth said: OTOH, dawgz and nice people are liked because they are not all up your keister and never say a discouraging word, so there is a lot to be said for staying mum, i 'spose. As long as you can neutralize the inner animosities. Serenity now! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MoseySusan Posted October 19, 2018 Share #20 Posted October 19, 2018 I err on the side of whatever. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MickinMD ★ Posted October 19, 2018 Share #21 Posted October 19, 2018 It's better to air some grievances, quietly hold on to some grievances, and let some grievances die away when "holding a grudge" is likely to reduce your quality of life in the long run. I know of a daughter who won't talk her mother, an aunt who will have nothing to do with her nephew, a father who wants nothing to do with his children, all for reasons that are relatively trivial compared to the loss of family support and love that becomes very important from time-to-time. My sister or brother and I are very close, but we can have a heated argument that leaves us red-faced. It's always "forgotten" by the next day and we learn from such arguments what "grievances" it's better to avoid raising with each other. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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