Popular Post ChrisL Posted July 27, 2021 Popular Post Share #1 Posted July 27, 2021 MIL leaves Wednesday so we took her to the beach last night as we have the kids coming over tonight to say good bye. As we are standing on the bluffs she says how she understands why we live here. My wife said you realize I’m never ever going to live inVA right? MIL says well then I need to live here!!!! My wife and her mom had a stern heart to heart no BS discussion which was needed and I won’t bore you with while I just enjoyed the view. 4 1 1 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Randomguy Posted July 27, 2021 Popular Post Share #2 Posted July 27, 2021 12 minutes ago, ChrisL said: no BS discussion which was needed and I won’t bore you with Dude, bore us with it! 2 1 9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MoseySusan Posted July 27, 2021 Share #3 Posted July 27, 2021 That is a beautiful view. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChrisL Posted July 27, 2021 Author Share #4 Posted July 27, 2021 20 minutes ago, Randomguy said: Dude, bore us with it! 😂 Basically you are difficult to live with, you bring tension & conflict into my and my family’s life and as long as you can live on your own we will require you to live on your own. But that was a 60 minute chat full of tears, why’s, I’m not that bad etc… 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shootingstar Posted July 27, 2021 Share #5 Posted July 27, 2021 So ...how will wife keep the home door politely closed to mother? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChrisL Posted July 27, 2021 Author Share #6 Posted July 27, 2021 Just now, shootingstar said: So ...how will wife keep the home door politely closed to mother? I answered just after you posted but see above. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shootingstar Posted July 27, 2021 Share #7 Posted July 27, 2021 19 minutes ago, ChrisL said: I answered just after you posted but see above. MIL really doesn't see the negative consequences of her own behaviour on others. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChrisL Posted July 27, 2021 Author Share #8 Posted July 27, 2021 1 minute ago, shootingstar said: MIL really doesn't see the negative consequences of her own behaviour on others. Selfish self centered people generally don’t. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
donkpow Posted July 27, 2021 Share #9 Posted July 27, 2021 On the bluffs and nobody over the edge. Isn't that sweet. 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Parr8hed Posted July 27, 2021 Share #10 Posted July 27, 2021 That ain't Indiana. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChrisL Posted July 27, 2021 Author Share #11 Posted July 27, 2021 Just now, Parr8hed said: That ain't Indiana. We parked the car, walked the 100 yards or so and as I hit the edge of the bluffs the damp salt air hit me. I took a deep breath and the only thought going through my mind was home… Everyone associated different things with home. Me, it’s the salt air. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Parsnip Totin Jack ★ Posted July 27, 2021 Share #12 Posted July 27, 2021 5 minutes ago, ChrisL said: We parked the car, walked the 100 yards or so and as I hit the edge of the bluffs the damp salt air hit me. I took a deep breath and the only thought going through my mind was home… Everyone associated different things with home. Me, it’s the salt air. And that explains why you’re so salty. Embrace the truth Chris. 😉 Tell us about the happy dance you’re doing after she’s gone. Congratulations on getting through another visit. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChrisL Posted July 27, 2021 Author Share #13 Posted July 27, 2021 31 minutes ago, Old No. 7 said: And that explains why you’re so salty. Embrace the truth Chris. 😉 Tell us about the happy dance you’re doing after she’s gone. Congratulations on getting through another visit. This trip has had less drama than most. We have entertained her some but the trip is more about seeing the baby. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ralphie ★ Posted July 27, 2021 Share #14 Posted July 27, 2021 Too bad she couldn’t have been smart enough to realize if she wants to live in CA she has to pay the piper. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
2Far ★ Posted July 27, 2021 Share #15 Posted July 27, 2021 1 hour ago, ChrisL said: Selfish self centered people generally don’t. Hard copy on that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
12string Posted July 27, 2021 Share #16 Posted July 27, 2021 2 hours ago, donkpow said: On the bluffs and nobody over the edge. Isn't that sweet. hmmm, that would have taken less than 60 minutes....... 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Airehead Posted July 27, 2021 Share #17 Posted July 27, 2021 3 hours ago, ChrisL said: 😂 Basically you are difficult to live with, you bring tension & conflict into my and my family’s life and as long as you can live on your own we will require you to live on your own. But that was a 60 minute chat full of tears, why’s, I’m not that bad etc… Hopefully MIL will at least remember a few minutes of that conversation. 1 hour ago, Philander Seabury said: Too bad she couldn’t have been smart enough to realize if she wants to live in CA she has to pay the piper. Or the landlord. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MoseySusan Posted July 27, 2021 Share #18 Posted July 27, 2021 37 minutes ago, Airehead said: Or the landlord This. She’s a grown ass woman who can live wherever she wants. Pay the bills; live your truth. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChrisL Posted July 27, 2021 Author Share #19 Posted July 27, 2021 57 minutes ago, Airehead said: Hopefully MIL will at least remember a few minutes of that conversation. Or the landlord. 19 minutes ago, MoseySusan said: This. She’s a grown ass woman who can live wherever she wants. Pay the bills; live your truth. Uh we pay the landlord… My wife’s brother & us pay her rent so she doesn’t live with us. No way we can afford her rent in SoCal… Trying to live like a southern princess has bankrupt her last husband who threw her ass out & had to sell the house to pay the bills. My wife’s dad threw her ass out as he saw the impending financial ruin she was steering them towards. She’s broke and has very little SS income & no retirement. Planning on others to take care of you while you spend their money is not a safe life plan… Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MoseySusan Posted July 27, 2021 Share #20 Posted July 27, 2021 13 minutes ago, ChrisL said: Uh we pay the landlord… To wit, she lives in VA. She pays her own bills; she can live wherever she wants. So, it looks like she’ll keep living in VA because there’s no chance she’ll pay her own bills. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recommended Posts
Create an account or sign in to comment
You need to be a member in order to leave a comment
Create an account
Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!
Register a new accountSign in
Already have an account? Sign in here.
Sign In Now